Useful Wisdoms For Simple Living

 we should forget about the past, focus on the present and be optimistic about the future. When you realize, success will not glorify you, failure will not crush you, normal boring lifestyle will not drown you, you will stand at he pinnacle of life. in our training and meditation, if we can take in all the unhappiness of life, focus on our responsibilities and not on the profitability, we will be standing at the spiritual height. if you use forgiving mentality to look back, and hopeful mentality to look forward to the future, sympathetic heart looking at those below, appreciative of what we have and look up, you are standing at the pinnacle of your life mentally, You know you only live once, so when we go through all these, we must try to live up to what we preach and try to be at the height of these.

 Do you know playing golf can actually help us in our everyday life , whether it is on your business or career, even in your growing up decision if you are about to into this society. for those who play golf, it is either a bad game or a good game. a bad game could be having bad shots, missed putt, lousy swing and golf flight go every where other than the right direction. so how do we apply what we suffer in golf game to our every day life. course management in a golf game is akin to business management in your business. if you can apply what you learn in your golf management around the course, you can apply that in your everyday life and your business. For example, before you make a shot, you analyse the situation, the place where your ball lies, the ground condition, the surrounding hazard, the wind condition and so on, since you do so much analysis, why can't you do the same when facing a business decision.  Sadly we usually make a hasty decision in business, if we make a h...

 Don't always make others happy and own self miserable don't worry about what others think and feel about you. don't feel bad when others suddenly feel neglected. don't be so soft hearted just because the other apologize to you. it comes back to the heading on why need to make other happy and make yourself miserable. do you really think the other person will appreciate your nice gesture and caring? when you are down, do you think people will come and comfort you? live your life the way you want and not tire out your self just because you want to please other. You only live your life once, so sometimes need to be a bit selfish and take care of your own self instead of others.

 All the organs of the body were having a meeting, trying to decide who was the one in charge. "I should be in charge," said the brain, "Because I run all the body's systems, so without me nothing would happen." "I should be in charge," said the blood, "Because I circulate oxygen all over so without me, you will all waste away." "I should be in charge," said the stomach," Because I process food and give all of you energy." "I should be in charge," said the legs, "because I carry the body wherever it needs to go." "I should be in charge," said the eyes, "Because I allow the body to see where it goes." "I should be in charge," said the rectum, "Because I'm responsible for waste removal." All the other body parts laughed at the rectum and insulted him, so in a huff, he shut down tight. Within a few days, the brain had a terrible headache, the stomach was bloated,...

 today i am going to share one nice article i came across while surfing internet. LESSON FOR MANY A mouse, looking through a hole in the wall, sees the farmer and his wife open a package. He was terrified to see that it was a mousetrap. He ran to the patio to warn everyone. -"There is a mousetrap at home!". The chicken that was cackling and digging says: "excuse me, Mr. Mouse, I understand that it is a big problem for you, but it does not hurt me at all." So, the rodent went to the lamb and he says the same thing: "Excuse me Mr. Mouse, but I don't think I can do more than ask for you in my prayers." The mouse went to the cow and she said: "But am I in danger? I think not!" said the cow. The mouse returned to the house, worried and dejected to face the farmer's mousetrap. That night a great noise was heard like that of the mousetrap catching its victim, the woman ran to see what she had caught. In the dark she did not see that the mousetra...

 Anger is punishing oneself for the mistakes of others. We tend to get angry when some one under our care make a mistake. Or when some one does something to get into our nerves. Especially when some one makes a mistake and we are not happy. Why do we need to get angry and make ourselves miserable just because some one else makes a mistake? Why do we need to punish ourselves because of the act of others. It is about time we learn and don't get affected by other people's act. We live our life the way we want NOT the way others want.