Useful Wisdoms For Simple Living

  Leave a little blank space , this is the wisdom of life People used to say, give yourself a little space, this will make you feel better , and easier to breath. When you are proud of your achievement, leave some blank space for thinking, do not let complacent, make sure your feet are firmly on the ground. When you are in pain, leave some space to comfort your self, do not let the pain suffocate you until you lose your right thinking. When you feel annoyed, leave some space to be happy, your annoyance will go away and the smile will be back in no time. When you are lonely, leave some space for some friendship, the real the true friendship is just like another person in you. In this life, the real truth is always to leave some blank space for you to take on some positive matter, leaving a space is the best wisdom you can have. People always say, do not fill the cup full, leave some space at the top, if not the water will spill out. Likewise, in our life, we must always leave some s...

  There are two reasons determining whether what you do will be successful or not. 1. Failure to see the trend, and keep following behind others footsteps , from the look of it, there is hardly any risk at all, actually it is a sign things are going downhill and doomed. 2. Love manipulating, afraid of losing, just want to gain, don’t want to give up, just want to reap, don’t want to sow, just work hard, not do good deed and accumulate virtue. a trending work or business, a person with have done good deed will be successful, on the contrary, a person who has not done any good deed, if he goes and carries out the work, the business will sure be a failure.  you must be wondering why it is so. the simple explanation is a good deed will be duly rewarded. those who do not have the good virtue, will not be able to reap the reward, no matter how hard he tries. At the end of the day, we need to do good deed as we reap what we sow.

  Too smart and no way,   Don't be too harsh on people,   Too harsh without friends.   losing out a bit is not an issue, let him have his way if he wants to, is not a big deal.   every one wants to be respected,   likewise, every one desires to be understood Know how to make concessions, be generous, know tolerance, show generosity, learn to calm down, learn to hold back anger, To endure in the face of dissatisfaction is not showing weakness, but tolerance, concessions are not incompetence, but generosity. The problem is every one thinks just because you do not fight back, that means you are weak and can be bullied, they do not realize actually you just don't think it is worth your time to waste on garbage. We have other better thing to do than dealing with troublemaker whose aim is to make you lose  your cool and annoy you. #ykyolo.com #generosity.

 After working hard all your life, wealth is still out of your reach? if you are facing this problem, then need to take a hard look why is this so. it may show that your direction is wrong, then you may need to change course or choose another course. People who follow the trend, will get twice the results with half the effort, and the wealth is within your reach. People go against the trend, will do more with less result, and rely on you in vain. If you don’t understand its connotation and still live your own life and remain indifferent, then your future life will definitely be a waste of time and you will regret your life. The problem is most of the time, people after all these while, even though they knew they were not heading anyway, and yet still refused to change course, for some reasons such as: 1. they think it is too late to change now. 2. worry even change , still can not make any headway. 3. lost the confident in himself after all these years. 4. scare of failure. 5. no l...

  When you put your faith in yourself, you will always be empowered the most beautiful thing in the sky is the star,  The most beautiful thing in the world is true love Give people money is the first step, giving him ability is the 2nd step and giving him a concept and idea is the final step. Being rich is to be rich without contentment. Being noble is to be able to be refined. Being poor is poor in having little knowledge. Will be considered cheap if we are spineless. Therefore, if we are able to put faith in ourselves, we will feel we have the strength to do whatever we set out to do. in this world, it is important that we do not look down on ourselves, others may look down on us.  what others think of us is none of our business. what we think of others is our business. We live in this world is for ourselves, we do not live for others. Thus get on our life and be happy.

  Use character to inspire others, use change to influence others. Use the conditions to incite others, Use strength to conquer others. Use action to inspire others, Use the sun to shine on others. Demand yourself to do things related to your dreams every day, Even if you only make improvement a little bit every day, stick to it and you will be the best and most outstanding person. If we can stick to the above, we will be able to see how we can make use of our strength and  take a lead in inspiring others to greater height. This is what a leader needs to do, a leader leads and NOT manage, however if we are not able to inspire and show people how good you are, then how are you going to be the leader?

 A person's value depends on where he is. When a couple was in love, they would think and appreciate what good deed they had done in their previous life, to enable them to meet up and be a couple. However, after marriage, the same couple would wonder what sins they had committed in their previous life until they had to endure each other. For the same bottle of mineral water, it only costs two or three dollars in a provision store, but it costs a lot more in a 5 Stars Hotels. why? So what did the above two incidents tell us? For some points of value, it all depends on the position you are in and how you view it. It very much depends on the position you are, if you are in a high position, your view may not be the same as the one in a lower rank. It depends on perception and your own opinion. That is the main reason I don't really bother to watch FORUM or Current Affairs where the so called EXPERTS are giving their views. To me, it is all their own points of views and their percep...

 People will only show some care when they realize they are missing something. Life is simple as long as we stay focused on what we are doing. There is actually no much we need, it is just that we think too much of what we want and inadvertently we tie ourselves down unnecessary. Spend more time on what you have, and less on dreaming of what you do not have, Contentment and gratitude make you happy. I always believe as long as we are contented with what we have and show our gratitude of what we have, we will have a much happier life. Come to think of it, most of the time, we are the one who bring upon ourselves all the problems and created unnecessary worry. #ykyolo.com #astutebizadvisory.com #cansuredo.com #contentment

  If everything can be repeated, I am willing to treasure every inch of time that remains Do not go and ask, in the journey of life, how much more we have left. Do  not go and think, where is the ultimate resting place. After experiencing the warm and cool of human relationship, we come to know the desolation of the world. After going through rain, shine and thunderstorm, we become more seasoned and tougher. After frost and snow, our life will grow and be more mature after all the hardships. After experiencing the bittersweet of this world, then only we can embrace the warm of the sunshine of this world in terms of human relation Therefore, if you have the chance to live this all over again, try to treasure every inch of the time remaining and enjoy it fully.

  To pursue the wrong thing is to use one's life to solve the troubles one has created What are the wastage in one's life? - wasting the time away. - stubbornness in pursuing the wrong idea and concept - unnecessary hesitation in making decision. - robotic reaction in facing issues. - blindly stagnant with no progress. - do not dare to accept the reality of the current situation. - refusing to face the true fact. - hoping for a better outcome even though knowing it is a gone case. - hanging on to lost cause instead of letting it go. If  we are able to forego the unnecessary pursue of hopeless cause, and free ourselves from unnecessary worry, we will have a better future and quality life. #ykyolo.com #astutebizadvisory.com. #cansuredo.com #letgo

  Single-mindedly be myself, even if it is not perfect, is the most beautiful. standing among the crowd, I am not a stand out, I am just a normal person with low profile. Live in this world, I do not play mind game, a simple and easy to understand person, even though I am just ordinary, nothing special. I am not going to please those who do not like me, neither do I try to befriend those who look down on me, I am only making sure those who respect me will feel proud of what they are doing. There is not benefit in putting up a false face and trying to act to get others' respect and approval, it will be very tiring. There is no need to put on fancy clothing just to please some one or trying to blend into the group. Those who understand you, you do not need to explain to them. Those who do not understand you, there is no need for you to explain. Those who love you, will not give up on you. Those who do not love you, will leave you sooner or later anyway. So, trying to be your own self...

 There are no desperate situations in the world, only people who are desperate for their situations So, is it desperate situation or people who are desperate in their situation? Life is too short, there is no time to regret and dwell on situation we are in. so why must we waste one minute to feel upset with certain things or certain people ? As long as we keep an open mind and have a jovial heart, we will enjoy our life. Therefore, we can say we are the one who put ourselves in such as situation we think it is a desperate situation, actually it is us who are desperate in the situation. all things considered, it is important we have a clear mind on what we are doing and how we go about our daily life. In situation which we think desperate, we have to keep our cool and find a way out of it. Then we will feel everyday there is sun shine.

  Only when you really recognize yourself will you understand what you need. A lot of people just refuse to accept the fact and reality. most of the time they prefer to indulge in ostrich approach. if a person is happy with his situation now, at least that is fine, the worry is he is not satisfied with what he is in now and refuse to make some changes to improve his situation. We must be clear that our path forward depend on ourselves, no one is able to decide and plan for you. We have to realize that we are on our own and what we are now is our own doing, we are not the clone of some one else, and we are not the substitute of another person in our life. The day we really accept what we are and be ourselves, then only we can have a realistic and fulfilling life and happiness. Only when we really realize who we are, then only we understand what we need. Find a direction which suit us, do not need to worry about the past and the future, and do not dream of any high and impossible tar...

 Most of the time, we like to hang on to something, knowing very well that it is time to let go and break away and start afresh. However it is easier say than done. A person, even though you want to hang on to it, be it for remembrance, or for sentimental value, when it is time to let go, we need to take action and do so, if not, sooner or later, we will be hurt and heart broken. Any thing, anybody, will pass when the time comes, do not dwell on it and linger on. no matter how hard and difficult it is, we need to learn how to break free and move on. We need to remember , as day passes by, we are living on the balances of our live in this World!!!, and living on your youth days and hoping we do not age so fast, but we usually realize this too late and regret we do not face it earlier. We do not need to go through all the mistakes and learn from it, we can learn from the mistakes of others  this is a wise way to be smarter. Don't get on the wrong bus in our live,  live in t...

 People once said your academic education is not the true barometer of your education. Once people is puzzled with this statement, as every one thinks academic education is the education we are talking about. Without realizing there are a lot of monks who did not have any formal education at all , but some how, they are very knowledgeable and offer a lot of wisdom thoughts. All these monks have achieved their enlightenment and awaken their inner wisdom. Character and ability are just like the right hand and the left hand. Having ability but without a good character, the person is not complete and perfect. Character determine attitude. Attitude decide behavior. Behavior will decide the ultimate outcome. Character is the one which decide a lot of things, it has far more reaching meanings. No one is willing to have a staff whose character leaves much to be desired. A good character is the foundation of success, without it, we can forget about achieving a good result. therefore it is s...

 One can be unsuccessful but we can not accept that being unsuccessful, there is no growth at all. Surely we can learn a thing or two from our failure, after all failure  is the mother of all success. if we find a way to solve our problem  we can definitely find success easily. A person who always find excuses for failure, will always be a loser. To be successful, , the most important thing is to find the right way , method or solution, focus on it and be   perseverance  in getting it done that will be the correct way to do it. one may not be successful,  one can not be not learning any thing out of the experience. #ykyolo.com #astutebizadvisory.com

  A lot of times, we hear from our elders that we are the one who decide our own destiny and the path we are taking  to the future. To reflect on this, we may doubt this wisdom, but most of the time , it turns out to be the case. You do not change, the world is changing. You do not change, the surrounding is changing. You do not change, the market is changing. You do not change, your friends are changing. You do not change, times are changing. We know that things change as times move on, whether we like it or not, times wait for no man. Regardless of you agree or not, whether you accept it or not, things change and it does not need your agreement. Whatever will be will be, whatever is going to happen, it will happen for a reason. What is past and what is at present, it does not matter any more, it is history. The most important thing is what you want to bein the future. That we have to decide and take action. As said in the beginning, we control our own destiny, and we decide ...

 Every one of us has at one time or another , experience eating potato fry with tomato, however has anyone ever wonder two items are very different but eating together give us a very good taste and we can not help but enjoy it. I am sure , every one of us has stepped foot in McDonald and order French fries and eat it with tomato sauce, without adding the sauce, we do not seem enjoy the food at all. However, have we ever wondered why we mix the two together and eat? Good friend get together is not easy, among our friends, we may have friends who have strong character, some who are easy going, some are very powerful and strong, some are rich , some are very fussy, some are very gracious and don't care at all. It is just like potato and tomato, belonging to two different worlds potato become French Fries, and tomato become tomato sauce, and having the two together, we have the best combination. In the world, there is no such thing born and meant for each other. if need be, we have to ...