Useful Wisdoms For Simple Living

 What kind of a person you want to be, the decision is yours to make, no one can decide that for you or influence you in arriving at that decision. - capable people, choose to change. - lazy people, choose to adapt. - weak people, choose to avoid. - brave people, choose to let go. How you want to be, you make your own decision. How do you want to live your life, the decision is still yours. Through the eyes of one who like to criticize, the world is full of people with shortcoming. Through the eyes of snobbish persons, the world is full of low rank people. However if you have an intelligent eye, you will find actually in every person, there is something worth our respect , and we can also learn from every person whom we come across. No one is perfect and we should not look down on others,  Someone may be down at the moment, it does not mean he has not value for us to learn from. If we can look at a person objectively and with an open mind, we will find we can learn a thing or ...

 Everyone will have his success and failure every now and then, there is no such thing that you either have this or that. Success is not the propriety of someone, everyone has his or her success every now and then. Likewise he will have his failure too. In our life, we will have success and failure since the day we were born. When you start to learn how to walk, you would fall down a few times before you succeeded in walking, When you first learn how to ride a bicycle, pretty sure you met some failure in keeping yourself upright and ride the bike. There is no one who always has success and no failure, only thing is he never tells you how many times he has failed before he succeeded. Even you are gifted, that does not mean you will never fail. The most important thing is how do you react to your failure. If you keep whining about your failure instead of learning from it, you will never be successful. After all You Know You Only Live Once, therefore learn from your failure and be suc...

 There is one business in this world which keeps losing money, that is losing temper. When people insult you, you must treat it as helping you to build your fortune. When people hurt you, you must treat it as helping you to grow up. When people bully you, you must treat it as helping you to clear your karma. Even though you felt done with, remember, you are the one who is blessed, do not fight back. if one have a good heart but a bad mouth, all the good fortune will still leave you. If you are not able to tolerate other people's action, your achievement will be limited. as we said earlier, in this world, there is one losing business, that is losing your temper, whenever you lose your temper, you are already at a losing end. Good fortune will not be with a person who always lose his temper, therefore, in future, before you get angry, count to ten and take a deep breath, and think whether it is worth it to lose your temper over some trivial matter. You may gain some temporary victory...

 When you put your focus and attention to something, you will see the growth and it will be become something which will be part of your long term sucess story. If we can really put our efforts in doing something and focus on getting it done, we can be sure the experience will last a long time in our memory. For those people who are successful, there would be a time in the darkest moment of the life, no one was at his side to support him and encourage him on. And most of the time, this will be the moment we take stock of our life and move on and reflect on this and learn through the experience and hardship. This is the time we grow and mature in our thinking,  From this darkest moment, we learn  - how to depend on ourselves,  - how to learn from the failure,  - how to focus on task we are facing. - how to fight through adversity. - how to keep fighting and mature. Move away from the negative energy, and all the nay-sayers, Focus on the task on hand and make sure ...

 Take a steady path in life, don't be tempted, and don't be suspicious We always doubt the roads we are taking, every step we walk, we always have doubt and thousand and one thoughts going through our mind whether we are doing the right thing or not. Most of the time we are going round the circle, it is really a waste of time and our life. We should not : 1. walk and stop. 2. worry about what others say about us. 3. concern about whether we will reach our goals or not. Our life, our goals, we take charge ourselves. Step forward with confident, and full of energy and positive energy, do not have to worry about what is going on and what is on other people's mind. After all You Know You Only Live Once, so take charge of your life and be responsible to yourself.

 in the darkest moment, people tend to curse their luck, and blame everything under the sun for how unlucky he is. Well, even in darkness, your luck will not run out as long as you switch on the light. Today if you do the work which others do  not want to do. Tomorrow you can do the work which others can not do. Every thing start from small, we can collect tiny things and sooner or later , it will be a lot. Likewise, we gain experience slowly and learn from mistake bit by bit, sooner or later, we are so full of experience, can be considered an expert in the field. There was a story about one guy was always sick when he was young, almost everyday he fell sick  If we take constant step, and not rushing our steps, we will notice we are walking in a steady and firm manner, and  do not need to worry about tripping over  or whatever. In the darkest moment, we can still find our luck and be positive, as long as we switch on the light. All we need to do is to remember t...

 When the person who keeps sending you message , may be every day or every other day, it is not because he is too free, rather, it is because he cares more about you. when you go out for a meal with your friends, the one who like to settle the bill, it is not because he is rich, it is because he treats the friendship more important than the money spent. the one who likes to work more in the working life, does not mean he is a fool when he volunteer to do more, rather he is showing he is a responsible person. After some heated argument with friends, the one who apologize first, it does not mean he is wrong, it only shows he treasures the friendship with his friends more. some people like to help out, it is not because he owes you something, on the contrary, he treats you as his real friend. if you have been receiving all sorts of messages, be it SMSes, WhatsApp messages or Wechat messages, since nowadays social media is so highly used and easily accessible as long as you have a smar...

  Recognize who you are and know where you stand in the current situation instead of admiring other, may as well try to be yourself,  Superficial envy, boring comparison, clumsy imitation will only make you live in other people's shadow. blindly comparing with other, will not bring any happiness to you, on the contrary, it will make you more miserable. it definitely will not bring luck to you, instead, it will hurt you more. we must be honest to ourselves, and recognize who we are and where we stand, walk our own path and create our own value. We do not compare with other, we can use their success as our motivation and inspiration , so that we can achieve our goal we set out. After all You Know You Only Live Once, therefore, know your strength and capability and do the best. #ykyolo.com #knowyourstrength.

 Positive Energy is derived from having good mood. when a person is moody, he is giving out negative energy and this is bad as it may influence others around him. When a person is in good mood, he gives out positive energy, it radiant on others around too, boost up confidence. everyday, you need to be nice to yourself, and do good to others by having a good mood, you will appreciate the happiness in life and enjoy the fruit of living in this world. With this abundant of positive energy, you will notice others in your circle can feed on your energy, be more positive, every thing seems to be in harmony and synchronized with you. You will also find the sun light is so enduring and feel blessed with what you have, the happy mood will also make you feel very confident. Suddenly you find you can do a lot of things without worrying about failure, that is the power of positive energy. You Know You Only Live Once, so ride on this positive energy generated from having a good mood.

 Be open-minded, be a little less optimistic. Because there is nothing more important than being happy. For a journey, if we have been walking along this route for a long time, and still seem to be no end in sight, it is about time we change course. for an issue, if after a long time, we are still troubled by it, the best choice is to let go. there are some people we have been with for a long time, and we do not seem to see their sincerity, it is better to keep a distance from them. How to determine your fate is your own choice, if you choose to be responsible to yourself, your fate will be accountable to you. and you do not have to worry whether you have made a right choice or not. a lot of times, whatever we do, it is all our own decisions and our responsibility, we should not put any blame on others if the results turn south,  After all You Know You Only Live Once,    so own up and take responsibility for your decision and choice.

 As we grow older, we find that some of those friends who used to be with us over the years are no longer around us. It is not we are losing our friends, on the contrary, it is because as we grow and times pass by, we discover who are our real and true friends, especially after we experience some hardship. that is the best time to know who is the friend in need is the friend indeed. Life is an ever changing encounter, and full of exciting experience. The more we experience and go through some adventures, the more exciting our life will be. Some will stick in our memory as cast in stone, others seem to be always at our side, but seem far away, some sort of so near yet so far away. As we grow older, we find that we have made some friends and some friends are no longer friends, some may turn into our adversary. Some may have betrayed us over some trivial issues, which resulted in we start distancing ourselves from friends like that. Over the years, we start to find out who our real an...

 Patience determines the realm Some just because they put in some effort, expect reward immediately, these types will only can work as hourly work. if you have the patience and getting reward monthly, then you are suitable to be a salaried employee. Patiently getting rewarded annually are professional managers, who work for an annual remuneration. For investors, they are the one who expect rewards in three to five years' time frame. Those who can wait for ten to twenty years to see the rewards are mostly the businessmen. for the educators, they are expecting the reward to their hard work in fifty to hundred years. A great man will see his rewards in three hundreds time . And finally, only the saints have the patient to see results in more than three thousand years. what does this tell you? it tells you patience determines the realm. So we do not have to rush, after all when we were young, we used to hear the elders said slowly win the race. For those who want to see fast results of...

 When the person decide to commit and take responsibility, it shows he is growing up. When the person takes a step back from the matters, and analyze objectively and manage the issue clearly, it is a sign he is maturing. When a person knows how to adapt and control his emotion, it is showing he is destined for greatness. When a person knows how to look at himself in the mirror and reflect his inner thought, it is the beginning of his improvement. When a person know how to appreciate and show gratitude of what he has, it is sign he is going to have a wonderful and happy beginning. We know a person is growing up and maturing, if he starts taking responsibility of his actions and his doing, and if he starts showing his gratitude and appreciation of what he has, then he is learning to be on the right track. You Know You Only Live Once, so start taking responsibility of what you are doing instead of giving excuses. #ykyolo.com #responsibility

 Kindness is the guide of the soul, so that we will never lose our way. In desert, kindness is like a compass, leaving a road mark for us, so that we know how to find our ways home. in our daily life, kindness is the guide of the soul, it enable us to find our way and never lost our way. no matter whom you hurt, in the long run, you are the one hurting your own self. Perhaps you do not realize, soon or later you will find the cause and effect of what you have done. what you do on to others, is actually doing it upon yourself, this is the century old teaching and have been proven right every now and then. Only problem is people do not realize the repercussion only, and fail to relate the two. It is not that the effect is not forthcoming, merely it is not the time yet. Kindness is the basic human character, we need to keep this. Being kind goes a long way to keep harmony in the society. in the present world with so many unrest and disharmony and war rampaging every where, if every on...

 My old man used to advise me that if I wanted to walk my own path, first of all I must step out of the door, then the journey began. A lot of times, people always say they are at the end of the road, there is no way for them to go, the main problem is they have not found the right door for them to be on the road. Actually the door is always there, only problem is we do not seem to be able to find it. it is actually all the while in our heart, the main door in our heart, if we are not able to open it and make a move, it will be shut all the time. since it is in our heart, we are the only one who can open the door, failure to do so, we are not able to make the right move. Most of the time, we hesitate whether to make the move or not. If we do not make the move, probably we do not have the heart to do so. So open your heart and decide whether you want to make the move and plan your own path to success. No one can deny you the opportunity to be successful, only you yourself hole the k...

 Cherish those who are willing to embrace you if you are good to others, it is just like a candy, once eaten gone. on the other hand, your bad behavior is just like a scar, it will always be there. life gives us a lot of challenges and experience, we need to learn how to embrace it and accept whatever we have gone through. if there is a person who can forgive you for one mistake you made because of all the good things you have done, then you should appreciate his gesture and friendship. Because it is very hard nowadays to find such a person. Nowadays all we see is despite all the good things we have done, just because of one bad thing or mistake we made, we are heavily condemned and persecuted. no one remember all the good things done by you, but just for one misjudgment or lose of conscious and you committed a bad thing, people will remember and remind you of that. Second chance? don't really believe in this, it is the same in the corporate world, at the end of the year, during th...

 We always hear people say life is always on equilibrium, whatever you have now, you must have given up another thing, you can have everything. For example, when you go for dinner, you have to decide whether you have to have a Chinese food or go Western. Likewise, when you want to buy a car, you need to decide first whether it is a SUV or normal sedan, then you decide which brand you prefer. So life is a game of choice, from the day we are born, we always get into this game of choice, to decide either this or that. Is it possible to have everything? I doubt so, as I mentioned earlier, it is a game of choice, you either have this or that. When you want to have everything, there is a possibility that you end up with nothing. Why? because you have not decided what you want, and without making the choice,, you have nothing. Fairness is just like an equilibrium pendulum. one side put in so much effort, the other end needs to put the equal amount of effort in order to balance it. Therefo...