Useful Wisdoms For Simple Living

 If we can take control of the problems we are facing, then we can walk tall and be proud of what we are doing. Our life is evolving and changes happen every now and then, it is a continuous process. Only after we have experienced all these challenges and obstacles , then only we can grow and become stronger. One's growing up process is the same like the butterfly and moth develop through a process called metamorphosis. Struggling in pain the growing process, and training the determination at the same time. in the process, we notice our power  become stronger, our intelligent and understanding ability is uplifted, and unknowingly our life is being upgraded in the painful process. When we emerge from this struggle, we realize and discover we have possessed the ability to improve and face any challenges with ease.

 Don't make hard-to-solve grievances for the sake of quick success, and don't lose all your emotions for the sake of winning or losing for a while. Actually, no fighting over trivial thing is having a clear mind. and just take it whatever come along is a progressive mindset. whatever happen, just follow the flow of things, is always misunderstood as no need to do anything, in actual fact, it is not to give up your pursue of your goal, on the contrary, it is having a clear and open mind set to live our life. accepting whatever happen is a wisdom , it allows a person in this hectic living condition, to have a clear and peaceful mindset, cool mind. accepting whatever happen is also teaching us to accept whatever happen in our life, giving us the experience of reading others' intention and behaviors. do not feel despair over some one adverse comments about you, just because of some one cruel and derogatory words, making you upset and take away the happiness you are enjoying tod...

 IF we can not even take care of ourselves, how do we expect to manage others? If we can not even take care of our feet, how are we going to take care of other people's feet. go ahead and tell your feet and thank them for carrying you all over the place, having follow you for so long, it is about time you show some gratitude to your feet and appreciate their contribution thus far. If we are oOpen-minded, calm in dealing with things, being kind, and facing issue calmly, it's no big deal. Next we walk slowly and let our soul catches up with us.

 if you always admire others have a nice and fit body, and you are not willing to forego your appetite of high calorie food. If you always grumble you do not have the time to appreciate the beauty, but conveniently forget you are procrastinating and too laid back. If you long to go the places where others have shown in the album and talk about, and yet every weekend, you end up in your cozy home doing nothing. if you have not tried your best, you have not right to complain and grumbling. if your body is not feeling good, you should go and do more exercise and take care of your body. if you do not have money , you should try hard to earn some money. As long as you have the will and determination, there is nothing which can stop you from achieving what you are looking for.

 it was commonly said if you had the love in your heart, you could be a powerful person. Study showed to love is to understand and accept something deeply. From physiological point of view, love is necessary. From psychological point of view, love is the wisdom of one's practice. The best love is to let the other person to grow, feel the love, embrace it and work on it. anyone can feel the love and if every one has a heart of love, then this world will be a beautiful place to be in. unfortunately this type of ideal situation is hard to come by so it seems that if you have a heart of love, you can be a very powerful person indeed.

 Under no circumstance we should talk about others behind their backs. If we really need to say something about others, then do say the nice and good things about others. It is better to have another friend, even though may not be a very good friend, at least it is better than accidentally offended some one and become the enemy. sometime it is alright to be a fool, we do not have to be a smart guy all the while. look around, we can notice, in every day life especially in the social circle when people gather around, the one who acts like he does not know anything is always the one who is most successful. The one who brags and tries to show how smart he is, will be the one who exposed his shortcoming. Smart people tend to act like a fool and get things done his way  and have his way to life.

 We live in this world, with one part natural and one part reality. as a human, we must be kind hearted, however there must be a limit to it, and able to identify the truth and false and clarity. Not everyone can be friends, and not every one we need to pour all our hearts to or be kind to. we should not be petty but we must have our basic principle. when others have fault, we may not dwell on it,  if we have done good deed, do not need to brag about it. as long as we have a kind heart and selfless, we should live a better and happy life.