Useful Wisdoms For Simple Living

 Have a good friend who can share good and bad time with you. When you are in bad time, they can encourage you and support  you, uplift your moral. Have a friend who can show you the right way, be your stepping stone and walk through the mud and show you the way. have a friend who can always guide you, remind you , alert you  and even keep an eye on you, and let you know your short coming and weaknesses. The most beautiful thing in life is to have friends who can share the good time, bad times and experience all the hardship together , and have good memory of the time together. When we get old, then we can share the same story of what we have gone through. having good friend is a big fortune, and you know you only live once, so treasure the friendship you have. #ykyolo.com #friendship

 a lot of times, we are not able to let go of whatever happened, it is not because the matter still exist, it is just our mind set, we do not want to let go off. being cheated, we only think of revenge. being bullied, our hatred grow more and more and just refuse to let go. being criticized, we can not let go because our pride is hurt. most people are more concerned of what happened, and seemed being sucked into the matters and as result of it, suffer from the unhappiness of whatever happened. Don't put things in your heart, put your heart on things, everything will really pass. we should not dwell on whatever happened, be it bad or good, it will pass just like time passes by. if we put things in our heart, we will feel miserable eventually, , we need to put heart on things, then we can solve it and move on, or let it go and move on. After all, You Know You Only Live Once, no need to suck it up. #ykyolo.com  

 After reading all aspects of life, honesty is the best; after reading life's ups and downs, sincerity is the most beautiful. Life is just like a mirror, in which you can see good, bad, honest, deceit, cunning , sincerity, different people having different characters and expression and behaviour. Life is also like a book, in which you read sincerity, hypocritical behavior, pretension and so on,  different people will leave behind different records of their doing. after all these years of going through stormy weather, and suffering like drifting in an ocean, even though it may be tiring, hard, and exhausting, we do believe, and perseverance on what we are going through, honesty is still the best and most beautiful. if a person is not honest, then the trust is gone, once the trust is broken, it is very difficult to repair and restore to the original. no matter what others said and claim, it is just like mirror , once it is broken, you can not get back the same smoothness of the ...

 It may not be difficult to make friends, but it is difficult to become a confidant We used to think as long as our character match with others , it was not difficult to make friends with many. Then we realize, making friends are not that difficult, what is hard is to become a confidant. We know, human being attract to each other,  once get in touch, we can feel it that we can get along. Some can become friends af if we have known each other for a long time. on the other hand, there are some, no maters what, we do not seem to be able to get to know each other well. We can only think may be we are not meant for each other, may be the magnet does not click at all. If we do meet some one who can get along with us well, we should feel grateful and appreciate the friendship. We must also thank god for the opportunity to know the person. After all you know you only live once, so do enjoy the friendship developed and appreciate the person who comes into your life. #ykyolo.com #friend...

 If the heart is not happy, then make some changes, people change according to the heart, and the situation changes according to the heart. Life is a book without any wordings, everyone has his own way of studying it. Life is a question with many answers, every one has his own answer to any question. Life is a cup of strong tea, every one has his own taste of the tea. Just having a simple life, if feeling tire, just take a rest and relax, health is more important than anything. if feeling reckless, just cool down , let nature takes its course. Feeling exhausted and tired, learn to let go. slow down , do not go at a fast pace, enjoy the scenery, if there is no through road, change direction and move forward. if the heart is not happy, change your mentality, people change because there is a change of heart, and situation makes the heart changes. #ykyolo.com #relaxletgo

 There are times in life when you can't help but admit defeat. Do human beings like to gamble? Do human beings always hope to win? But there are times in life, when we have no other choice but admit defeat. We tend to waste a lot of time to do things which we think we can achieve it, and to love one whom we  think we will spend the rest of our life with, but at the end of the day, it comes to nothing and we lose badly. Are we such a hopeless gambler?  Until we lose everything then only we decide to walk away? while walking away, we tell ourselves, it is not that we must win, we just do not like the feeling of losing!!!!. Well, losing is not a bad thing anyway, the bad thing is we fail to learn from our losing and make changes and improve. Therefore, it is alright to lose every now and then, as long as we learn from the experience and analyze and do better the next time round, we will be the winner eventually. #ykyolo.com #losingmakewinner

 Do not gossip about others especially on their business and other matters. in this world, we tend to talk about others especially on things done by others,  Whenever we meet other friends, we tend to talk or rather gossip about what are going on , especially on those matters which do not concern us at all. Do Not Gossip, this is easier say than done. whenever we meet friends, we bound to talk about matters especially on what is going on with our circle of friends or others. almost everyday, we talk about others and things concerning them, likewise , others may also talk about us. is this healthy? is this the right way to live our life? Even though we may not say it out, but deep in our heart, we may say something about certain people on certain things, . Right or wrong, it is about whether you are right , I am wrong or vice versa.. In Buddhism, for those who practice Buddhism, we should not deal with this with the ordinary people, to be the judge, executioner or a referee to ...

 Some one makes you cry, surely there will be some one who will make you laugh. If God does not make it difficult for you, you will not be able to see through the real heart of a person. If God does not let you suffer failure, how are you going to find out those around you whether they are real friends or not? If God does not let you feel lonely, how are you going to sit down and seriously reflect on your situation and happening? If God does not let some one to hurt you with some scheming and give you a real gentleman to rely on, how are you going to improve your intelligent and EQ? God is fair to every one, some one makes you cry, other will make you laugh.  Karma works in a very interesting and funny way. Chinese has a saying - it is not revenge does not take place, it is rather it is not the time yet for it to happen. We need to thank God for training us and making us to be tougher, so that we can be the best we can be. #ykyolo.com. #makeuseofwhatyouhave.

 Everyone has a grievance, There is helplessness in everything difficult or not, only we ourselves know very well. Helplessness or hopeless situation, who knows?  if we do not tell others, no one would know what we were going through. Every one has his own problem to deal with, and facing helpless situation one time or another. We do not have to envy others flying high, as we do not know what they have experienced and overcome to reach the euphoria state they are in now. We do not need to look down or laugh at others when they are down or suffering from misfortune.. In one's life, opportunity and misfortune strike unannounced. All we can do is to take in in our own stride and move on. After all it is our lives we are talking about and dealing with, there is nothing more important than having to overcome any obstacles we are facing. Life may throw you a curled ball, it is up to you to decide how you want to deal with it and move. As long as we do our best, simplify matters and ...

 It doesn't matter how a person looks, what matters is his heart In the journey of pursuing fame and fortune, we can dress up nicely, make ourselves look very elegant and high class, with wallet full of cash and appearance bright and shinny. We may be able to show to others how we act, pretend or even fool or whatever.... But deep in our heart, we can try to find out whether with all these, we ask ourselves a question, - whether we are happy with it, to explore and understand what kind a person we are and what we want to be. Only ourselves know the real us and what we want to be. on the other hand, how we dress up , to certain extent also will help in getting on what we want to achieve. below I share a picture I came across in FB, and the meaning is very profound. the above show a pig and a panda, both are actually quite lazy and eat only, but one is being slaughtered every now and then while the other is being pampered with , just because one has a nicer appearance in term of colo...

  Adversity is sometimes the best landscape of life, and the best way to face it is to be inwardly calm and composed if there is a wonder in the world, that will be you are willing to accept adversity and face it with full vigor. A person who does not face any adversity in his life, may not be that lucky after all. for a victorious person, when he is reaching the end of his life, he may feel that he is living dangerously. All the while if a person's life is smooth sailing,  how is he going to face the reality of death? There are two things definite in life - die and born. so how do we accept we are going to die?  Accept the reality of it , selfless?  most of the time, in our old age, we live in fear. on the other hand, if we have gone through the adversity in our life journey, we will have the heart to accept anything come what may. just like spring, autumn or winter, we will be more appreciative, grateful, understanding and willing to go out to be under the bright s...

  Sometimes we have people asking us question like - is it good? Good or not, only we know since we are the one who taste or experience it. Life is hard for all of us, in our life, we experience the hardship, happiness and so on, and in the course of it, stop and go and every now and then we need to take a breather and recharge and move. And sometimes we wonder whether we can see the sun of tomorrow, and yet we can stop at the day just passed by. WE have to admit that times change every thing we faced and experienced When people ask me how is it with me, i just smiled and said it was alright, could be better. actually good or not, only i know it myself, however there is no need to let the whole world knows, isn't it? Sometimes, something is best kept in our heart, no need to show it outside. After all , no one will sympathize with you, they may just say a few comforting words just to be diplomatically correct, do not want to hurt your feeling. Our life, we live the way we want to l...

 People feel warm when they help each other Work, do it together then only we know it is simple. Journey, if there is a travelling companion, then we do not feel the distance is far. Friends, it is only by remembering each other that we can appreciate the deep affection we have for each other. Be kind to others, spare no effort to help others to achieve, and by doing so, without knowing it, we also find our own achievement. IF we are alone, we are just another human being, however if we are in a group, then we can move heaven, man proposes, god disposes. The road is under your feet, do go with your heart as you step on it on your journey. What does this message tell us? We can achieve a lot if we work together, united we stand, and we can achieve more if we can take in others strength and fuse it with ours. You Know You Only Live Once, so why want to work alone when we can tap into the strength of others? #ykyolo.com