Useful Wisdoms For Simple Living

 We notice there is a hole in a rock when it is continuously dripped by water. When the water drops continuously on the rock, day by day, month by month, the rock will either change its shape or there is a hole in the rock due to the repetitive action of the water drop. No matter how far is the road, as we walk and walk, it is getting nearer. No matter how distant we are in relation, the more we interact with each other, sooner or later we will know each other better and getting closer. No matter how high is the mountain, as we climb slowly , we will reach the peak soon. No matter how difficult the task is, the more we practice and do it, sooner or later, we will be familiar with the task. Every repeat action is not an addition, it is actually a multiplication of energy and power. the water can penetrate the rock or make a hole in the rock, it is not because of the power of the rock, rather it is the repeated action of hitting the rock, the result of persistent action. People will ...

 One of the weaknesses of human being is the tendency to see others' weaknesses and shortcoming, and fail to reflect on own inadequacy and shortcoming. However, it is to be noted that all creatures in this world are co related, and we are living in this give and take world. How much you give, you will be rewarded accordingly, even in religion teaching, it also encourages people to give in order to receive more in return. If you want people to respect you, you need to respect people first, as respect is to be earned and not demanded. If you want people to understand you,  you need to understand others first, without understanding others, how do you expect people to understand you? If you want people to forgive you, you need to forgive people first. If you want people to appreciate you, you must know how to appreciate others first. Human beings are relative to each other, and there is always interaction between people. After all action and reaction are equal and opposite to each...

 Appearance May Be Deceiving, In Long Run, You Will See The Truth Looking at people , you cannot just look at the face, but over time we will definitely see the real people's hearts. When you treasure a person, you must have felt appreciative before. When you give up a person, you must have felt disappointed because of that. When we look at a person, we can not just look at the appearance, it may be deceiving. Over time, you will learn more about the person and find out the real him. We can not judge a person by the look, just like we can not judge a book by its cover. Only when we are facing challenging time and dire situation, then we will know who are the real friends we have. When we are down, then we will know who will further put you down, and who will lend a helping hand. it is very common and true, when we are down, then you realize all those so called friends who always hang around you when you prospering , suddenly choose not to know you and they will keep a distance from...

 No matter how young you are now, if you don't want to be bedridden in your later life, You have to start taking care of your body and health  Try to cultivate a good healthy lifestyle, stay away from unhealthy practices, keep yourself fit and always ensure you exercise regularly, remember Healthy life is the key everything you want to do. If you maintain your body properly , it is just like having a good maintained bike, on the contrary, if you do not do maintenance , you will end up in wheel chair eventually if not bedridden. if you take care of your body always, when your dear one feed you, it is so enjoyable and sweet,  If you do not take care of your body, when your love one feed you, it is a burden and a necessity. Must develop a good and disciplined lifestyle. Sleep is the first most important component of having a good healthy body. Having enough sleep is good for your body as your body will rejuvenate when you are sleeping, and it is during this time, your body w...

 When we feel depressed and down, try to change the environment and breath new air. When you hesitate, try to change your mind set to choose. When you feel distraught, to eliminate the problem, all you have to do is to change the way you look at the issue. Instead of grumbling, change the way you look at the problem. when you feel down and inferior, change your method to deal with the issue. Most of the time, we do not seem to be able to overcome our own self inflicted problem , we tend to look at issue from the pre judged mind set. Sometimes, all we need to do is to look at from another perspective. At time, all we need to do is to think out of the box and the issue will seem very simple and straight forward. Remember, it is not the end of the world, all we have to do is to look at it from another angle. Chinese has a proverb which says - those who are not in it will look at things in a much clearer way.

 Right from the beginning, have to be cautious. if we are not able to be careful and deal with it correctly, the consequent will be very difficult to deal with. whether we are dealing with matters or people, the starting point is very important. Good or bad thing, it all happens in a minute of thought. Good fortune, bad luck all starts from the thought we have in mind, just like a seed when it starts to grow, coupled with some elements in the environment will grow into what it is meant to be. Every one wants to have good fortune, but not knowing it starts from the good thought and good heart. If we set out to be good hearted, it is the beginning of good fortune. After all, good thing will manifest into better things, evil thought will definitely result in bad fortune.

 To get to know a friend and build up a long lasting relationships take years. However, it only takes a spur moment or split second offend a friend and cost the friendship to disappear. The volatility of the relationship, the wavering of the human feeling and some little insensitivity can disrupt and derail the development of friendship, Because of friends, we tend to have less worry, if friends are getting too close, the relationship can be very complicated. but if it is too distant, the friendship may not stand up the test of the time and eventually lose contact of each other. This fits the saying : - out of sight out of mind. We do not need purposely to and nurture a friendship, just let the nature takes its own course, we just appreciate the friendship we develop with each other, at least we can claim we have such a relationship and good friendship. It is good to have you as my friend in my life and i appreciate the friendship we have had.  

 There Is Nothing Difficult In This World, Provided You Dare to Face It Head On. It is not the end of life if you lose something along the way, as long as you do not lose your hope. Difficult situation and encounter is just a test of your resilience and see how you triumph in adverse situation, it is also a way to train you to be stronger. A kind of awakening and sublimation of life. even when you walk until you run out of water when you are climbing a mountain, you must still have the desire to appreciate the nature and the cloud hanging in the sky. the ship when it reaches the jetty, it will stir its head to along side the jetty, even it is perpendicular to the jetty, you can still see the water flow as the ship moves along. in every challenging situation there is always an opportunity. It all depends on how you react and handle the situation. if you have a positive attitude and mind set, you will find a solution to the problem you are facing. therefore it is very important you h...