Useful Wisdoms For Simple Living

the world is round because it was reported that the Maker wants to ensure those who are lost can find their way. Since it is round, the logic is if you continue to walk straight, you will still come back to the place where you started. When a person is vulnerable and weak, must know how to bear with it and conserve your energy. on the other hand, when you are in a commanding position,  you should not show your muscle around, and force people to the dead end. If you do force others to desperation, they may just fight back, after all they have nothing to lose. Some times it is good that to leave your opponent a way to retreat, instead of going all out to finish them off, by doing so, you may just give yourself a way out too. Nothing in this world is cast in stone, and or live and death matter. therefore, there is no reason to be so mean by not giving people a chance. After all, You Know You Only Live Once,  #dailywisdom #ykyolo

  Your experience is your capital, and your character is your destiny All the experience you gain in your life will be a good asset for you. It is a intangible capital for you, which you can draw on whenever you face a new challenge. Your character will determine the destiny you will be heading in due course. Complicated things if you do it a simple way, you are an expert. If you do the simple things repeatedly, you are the master. repeatedly doing it with heart, you are the winner. If we can do complicated things using simple method, people will look at us as if we are the expert, since we can simply do it regardless of how complicated it is. And if we repeatedly do it the simple way, then sooner or later we will master it and become a master, after all practice makes perfect. If we put our heart and soul in doing it repeatedly, then we will be the winner. Beauty belongs to the self-confident,  Opportunity belongs to the pioneer, and  Miracle belongs to the persistent. t...

 We have always been who we like in the eyes of others. How many can really be himself ? all these while, we have been behaving to be the persons in the eyes of others, the person whom we think they like. When we can not live up to the expectation of others, so we think, we feel rejected and disappointed. But really, come to think of that, supposing we manage to live up to the expectation of others, do we really feel happy about it?  Is this  really what we are looking for?  always live up to the expectation of others,  whom we assume we are the persons others like. I wonder whether all these is what we want and really need Our life is ours, how we live our life is our business. You know you only live once, we walk our own path, and live our own life. How we want to live our life, it depends on how we want to be and NOT what others want us to be. Do not always care what others think, that is not your business, what others think of you is their business, nothing ...

 Mindset decides everything, or attitude determine whatever you do. Your attitude and mindset determine whatever you do and your development and progress. If you have a positive and energetic mindset, there is nothing which can stop you from achieving whatever you set out to do. Your view will determine the direction you decide to take. Your setup indicate how successful you will be Your determination will support you in how far you can go. No grumbling, no teasing, no jealousy, only have a good mindset and healthy attitude, then you can find the real you in due course. Mindset is very important,  Bora  Milutinović, when he was the China National Football Coach, once said - Attitude decides everything. as he saw the shortcoming in the China national team. Similarly, we could see the match between Liverpool vs Manchester United on Tuesday night where United lost 4-0, the efforts put in by the United Players were embarrassing, to say the least, the mindset is not there, one...

 The mouth is someone else's, but life is your own What does this mean? This means whatever people say about you, that is his business, as the mouth is his,  But do you get affected with what he said? Your life is your own, if you get affected, then it is too bad. Every now and then, we can hear some pessimistic and discouraging comments from people, especially when they see what you are working on. instead of giving encouraging words and helping out, most people prefer to pour cold water over you, trying to see whether by doing so, can put you off your balance or not. If you get affected with all these discouraging comments, you will not succeed, instead, people will feel mission accomplished since they set out to get you off course in the first place anyway. Most of the time, people like to see you fail in whatever you are doing, unless it is a real friend, who like to see you succeed, otherwise majority of the time, people do not like to other people being successful. Why? ...

 If the mind is not complicated, life is simple This is a very interesting quote which I learned. Most of the time, we tend to look at issues and problems using microscopic view, without realizing sometimes a simple solution is just what is needed. Is this world very complicated?  One looks at it, yes, it is very complicated, but in reality, it is simpler than we think. We think it is complicated, it is because of our own perception, it is our opinion and thinking, thus we always think this and that is so complicated. A lot of times, we do not need to enforce our thinking on it, treat it naturally and live our life, do not complicate matter to our liking. If we do not care about what others think of us,  and what opinion they have about us, we will feel better, after all what they think of you is none of your business. As long as we focus on our objective and work towards it, infiltrate this indifference and firmness into our life,  we will be able to take control of...

 Learn to accept yourself of what you are. A lot of people like to grumble and lament about his plight and the situation he is in. Some feel unhappy of the family, environment he is in, and where he is born, almost every thing is unfair to him, it is not what he wants in his life. Actually, in reality, if one can accept and under life , learn how to accept the days passed by, and embrace today and looking forward to tomorrow and the days coming, Life will be better and not bad after all. If one can accept the one he was of yesterday, and embrace himself for today and looking forward to the tomorrow of himself,  he will find that he will feel better. if he is not able to do so, no matters how good the environment is, no matters how rich and delicious the foods are, and how great the friends are, if you feel miserable and unhappy with yourself, your blood will be bleeding internally forever. LOVE, starts from you start accepting yourself of what you are, and likewise life will b...

 In our life, there are two things we face every day. It is either we succeed or we fail. Success is just a process, whoever can survive this process, he or she will succeed. If you want to feel comfortable, go and have a sleep, play something you like, or just sit there and day dream. However, if you want to be comfortable in your later life and feel relaxed, then you need to work hard and slog it out now, no matter how hard and difficult it is. This world is very fair, if you want to be better than others and stronger than others,  you need to go and do things others will not even want to do at all. If you want to have a better life, then you have to work it, nothing will come in a plater and given for free. There is no such thing as a free lunch, whatever we want, we need to work for it, then you will appreciate more of the effort and sacrifices you have put in. If you do not suffer now in order to have a better life later, you will suffer later in your life. Success wait f...

 If you want to test a person's character, give him power/ authority. How true this is, we can see from those leaders of the countries in this world. once come to power, the true character showed up glaringly. Power corrupt, absolute power corrupt absolutely. History told us it had been countless examples when a person came to power, the real character showed up. Before a person came to power, he was so humble and approachable and always had a listening ears to the plight of people. However all these changed once he came to power and getting worse if he was in power too long. When a person thinks that he does not need to listen to anyone advice or others' help, that is the most vulnerable point of his time. When a leader thinks he is not indispensable, that is the time he is to be replaced. We should be more humble when we have some achievement, this way we can continue to grow and improve, if not , everything will be lost in totality in no time. In this universe, changes take ...

 Mind Restless, All Chaos, Peace Of Mind, All Is  Well IF we have a clear thinking of mind, it is much better and more important than we slog hard in our work. The peace of mind will determine every thing we are doing. Having a clear and conscious mindset, we can perform better in reality. We have  right direction  and focus is more important than hard working aimlessly. We are getting no way if we just keep working without any direction like a headless chicken. Doing the right thing is more important doing the thing right.  Well, you may argue, what is the different? Doing the thing right does not mean you have done the right thing. For example, your boss asks you to transfer some  money from the company to his personal account, and you do it correctly, taking the money from the company and transferring into your boss personal account under the instruction of your boss, that is doing the thing right. But is this action the right thing to do? taking company...

 Watch others to know yourself. It is amazing by watching others, we are able to know ourselves better.  Just like the sayings I am sharing below. A person's character depends on his words and deeds, and a person's thinking depends on his behavior. if we want to know a person's character, all we need to do is to listen to his words and watch his deeds, from these, we can more or less know the character of a person. Likewise, by looking at his behavior, we knw his thinking. A person's heart sees his actions, and his mind sees his eyes. By looking at his actions, we know what is his inner self, and by looking at his eyes, we can read his mind. Human knowledge depends on conversation, and human connotation depends on performance. Having conversation with a person, we can know how much knowledge he has, then by looking at his performance, we can know his connotation. A person's cultivation depends on his character, and his ability depends on his performance. if you ...

 Seize the moment and act now I am sure every one of us heard this phrase very often. Especially when we attend any motivation talk. When you attend any seminars on investment and stock trading, you will hear this phrase too, seize the moment and act now. The greatest thing in this world is to act immediately, regardless of whatever you do, do not hesitate, and wondering what should you do, act now. When you take the first step, you are already half way to your success on whatever you are doing. Therefore, living in this world at the preset moment, act now and not procrastination.  We should not worry about making mistakes, instead we should worry about what we miss if we do not act now. So Act Now, Take Action. #DailyWisdom.

 We live in this world, at time feel very tire and sick of living. The main reason is because we are not willing to let go and lead a normal life. Life is not an examination, there is no standard answer to it. Any profession, any personality, any way we live our life, there is a reason to be respected. As long as  We respect our inner self,  listen to the inner voice ,  know who we are,  what we want to do,  and  what we want in life, Know how to choose the life we want to live with, not to satisfy others expectation fulfil the main stream society value. All we need to do is to constantly ask our self - 1. Who are we? 2. What are we busy with? 3. What do we want to achieve? Train ourselves to have a strong mentality, responsible to ourselves, happily accept the consequent of our choice and selection. Once we have chosen the path we are going on, we should try our best to do it to perfection with no regret. #Dailywisdom

 When you keep nagging non stop, it only  goes to show your stupidity to the world. On the other hand , when you keep your cool and have a listening ear, it shows your wisdom is growing and you feel happy. I think as we grow older, we realize the more we nag, the worse the situation become. On the contrary, the more we listen and learn from the situation, the more we are in control. Those who listen, can learn from the strength of others, and this can compliment our shortcoming. Communication with others is to listen to others and respect others. Listening attentively is to get rid of our wrong doing, learn from the mistakes we made, and getting away from regretting our action for the foolishness we committed. keeping silence goes a long way to help us in saving us from all the worries. Listening attentively is the best wisdom we can get. Learn how to listen attentively, and every now and then we need to reflect on what we have listened. Most of the time, we hear people said, ...

 In times of adversity, we must hold fast to our hopes in order to get out of the predicament. Every one of us face all sorts of adversities in our life, how we handle it to overcome the challenges? Some will simply give up when they face the adversity, some will try to overcome it and hope every thing will be fine at the end of the day. In this society, no one can say he is smooth sailing all his life, there must be some challenges and adversities along the path of our growing up, in our working life and even in our relationship with the other half. It can not be all roses and no thorny issues, whenever we are in comfort zones, and if we can be wary of the risks and danger, then we can be sure of good long road ahead. When we face adversities, and if we can keep to our hopes and be persistent, then only we can get out of this predicament.  We can treat this as training to make us a better human being,  It may be by fate, that we need to overcome this adversity and grow u...