Useful Wisdoms For Simple Living

 Not to grieve the past, not to covert the future, focus on the present and thus to be at peace. Whatever will be will be, there is no ways to avoid it. No need to admire others, and do not feel sorry for yourself. Whatever is past is passed, no need to dwell on it, no need to fantasize the future, focus on the present. in the word of a farmer, just plant the good seeds, only care about the farming and clearing of the land for planting the good seeds, do not worry about the harvest. Do not demand, do not take it rashly, everything depends on fate. After all, there is a saying, what is yours is yours, what is not yours is not yours,  meaning, what is yours, even you don't want it, it will still land on you, what is not yours, no matter how hard you try to get it, you will still not be able to get it. You Know You Only Live Once, so, just take it easy and focus on the present and be at peaceful with yourselves.

 When an egg breaks from outside, it is due to pressure from outside, however, if it breaks from inside, it is a growth. If we break the egg from outside, the small chick will die, however, if by natural progression, when the egg is fully hatched, the small chick will break the egg shell and come out on its own, it will survive. if you are waiting for others to break you from outside, for sure you will become other people's meat. On the contrary, if you can break out from your own comfort zone, it shows your progress of growth and will feel like a reborn to you. Only when you are tired can you relax, only when you are bitter, you know sweetness. While you are still young, step out bravely, face the challenges. Only after you have gone through the storm, then only you will be able to train your patient, and endurance power, a conscious mind, then only wealth and fortune will come to you. There are no towering trees growing in the greenhouse, and the birds under the protection of the...

 What happened yesterday was not important, The key issue is today whether you try your best to do something useful. A lot of us like to dwell on what happened yesterday and what we missed yesterday. Well, what is passed is past, no need to waste too much time on it.  We must look forward and focus on today. Whatever you do today, it may look very ordinary, nothing special, it may have the effort you are accumulating for your future. Today you may face some challenges, some unhappy happening, all these may become the foundation for a better you in the future. You may have some rejections and faced some failures, learn from this experience and treat it as the steps to build a better tomorrow for yourselves. Do not wait until you are old, and can hardly walk or move around, then regret and think of what could have been. What happened yesterday? that is no longer important, it is history. The most important is - have you put in your best effort today to do something good and lear...

 Take responsibility for your emotions. It is not an easy way to do so, but it is the best way for you to grow internally and mature emotionally. We are not able to change the way people look at you or things that have happened. However we can change the way we look at others and how we look at things that have happened. Do not waste your precious time to dwell on those things that have happened , or cursing your luck on the misfortune supposedly on you. On the contrary, we should use the positive energy generated to think of a way to face the issue. We must have a clear mind to think of the steps we are going to take and how to move forward. Before we deal with the right or wrong of any event, first we must clear our mind and control our emotion. We must make sure we do not make any decisions at the height of our anger or make any angry comments. Words, once said, we can not take it back, we may not have the intention to hurt people, it could be the words we said at a spur of our ...

  Whatever you let go, don’t let go happiness, likewise, don’t lost your smile. When we want to let go of something, don't let go your happiness, likewise, whatever you lost, don't lose your smile. A journey is long and short, there is always a good and sad event A taste which is cold or hot. After going on for a long journey over mountain and rivers, nothing beat being at home. After going through all those colorful lifestyles, a quiet and peaceful living is still the most long lasting. Going through all the hectic and noisy living, it is the quiet low-lying lifestyle is still the best. After we have experienced all these, then only we understand. Our life is our own, only we ourselves is the one controlling it, whatever we want to give up, do not give up happiness, whatever we want to lose, do not lose our smile. After all, You Know You Only Live Once, so, keep your smile and be happy.

 The heart is simple, it is simple to look at the outside, the heart thinks a lot, and it is also very complicated to see the outside. When we keep a simple mind, every thing we look at will be very simple and straight forward. On the other hand, if we think a lot, every thing will be complicated. Golfer used to say, - over analysis become paralysis, the more you think about the golf shot you are going to make, the more you mess up the shot. We always like to think of the negative effect of everything. Every decision we make, if we only think of the negative side of it, most likely it will turn out bad, so don't wish of bad thing, it may just happen. The more we think of the bad thing, sooner or later, it will affect our mood and indirectly it will affect the decision we make, and people may think we are a paranoid and a difficult person to work with. it is always the case that the more we think of the negative, the adverse it will be, we should manifest the positive and more optim...