Daily Wisdom 84 - Cherish those who are willing to embrace you

 Cherish those who are willing to embrace you

if you are good to others, it is just like a candy, once eaten gone.

on the other hand, your bad behavior is just like a scar, it will always be there.

life gives us a lot of challenges and experience, we need to learn how to embrace it and accept whatever we have gone through.

if there is a person who can forgive you for one mistake you made because of all the good things you have done, then you should appreciate his gesture and friendship.

Because it is very hard nowadays to find such a person.

Nowadays all we see is despite all the good things we have done, just because of one bad thing or mistake we made, we are heavily condemned and persecuted.

no one remember all the good things done by you, but just for one misjudgment or lose of conscious and you committed a bad thing, people will remember and remind you of that.

Second chance?

don't really believe in this, it is the same in the corporate world, at the end of the year, during the performance appraisal, you are being penalized for the mistakes you made over the last one year, despite all the good things  you have brought to the company and the company benefited from your effort.

The boss chose to talk about the 10k losses you caused the company instead of the millions you brought in to the company, and for that, you were passed for promotion or bonuses.

You Know You Only Live Once, so, embrace those who can see your weakness and short coming and still accept your friendship, 

Stay away from those who decide to walk away from you when you have made a mistake.

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