Wisdom 112- Those Who Have Put In Effort, Will Be Loved And Blessed

 One of the weaknesses of human being is the tendency to see others' weaknesses and shortcoming, and fail to reflect on own inadequacy and shortcoming.

However, it is to be noted that all creatures in this world are co related, and we are living in this give and take world.

How much you give, you will be rewarded accordingly, even in religion teaching, it also encourages people to give in order to receive more in return.

If you want people to respect you, you need to respect people first, as respect is to be earned and not demanded.

If you want people to understand you,  you need to understand others first, without understanding others, how do you expect people to understand you?

If you want people to forgive you, you need to forgive people first.

If you want people to appreciate you, you must know how to appreciate others first.

Human beings are relative to each other, and there is always interaction between people.

After all action and reaction are equal and opposite to each other.

You must show what you have contributed and  sacrificed before you can see the reward for your efforts.

People will love and bless those who have contributed, no one will like a person who only know how to take advantage without putting in his share of the effort.



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